Malay wedding attire follows the ceremony— modest, classically white for the akad nikah; coordinated songket grandeur for the sanding; a lighter change for bertandang. Here's the full guide for couples and guests, plus where to rent or tailor in Singapore.
For the nikah: modest, classically white or soft-toned outfits (kurung/kebaya; baju melayu with samping). For the sanding: grander coordinated songket or embellished outfits as raja sehari, often with a tanjak for the groom. A second colourway is common for bertandang or evening changes.
Smart and modest — baju kurung, kebaya or a midi/maxi dress for women; baju melayu or shirt and slacks for men. Avoid white head-to-toe (the couple's palette) and anything revealing; light fabrics win at void deck and CC weddings.
Typically two (nikah + sanding), with extra changes as add-ons. Confirm whether accessories — tanjak, veil, jewellery — and pressing are included.